From Top Student to 40: Why Wealth Eludes Me

Clutching my college degree, I felt as though a burden had been removed from me, yet I remained unaware that numerous crucial life skills were absent from my repertoire.

In my younger years, I excelled as a top student in high school, went on to attend an esteemed university, and eventually secured employment with a large corporation. Yet, despite these accomplishments, at more than 40 years old, I find myself merely part of the lower-middle-class bracket rather than being financially well-off.

In the meantime, my cousins, who are now in their 30s, have become quite wealthy. Despite not being academic high achievers and failing to secure positions in prestigious firms initially, they ventured out on their own. Unfortunately, these endeavors led them to lose significant amounts of money. At some point, they even found themselves having to borrow funds from me.

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Some of my older relatives, born in the 1970s, only finished high school and built their wealth from nothing. They did not push their kids (born in the 1990s and 2000s) to be top students. Instead, they encouraged them to socialize, learn comfortably, and stay humble.

I’ve come to understand that numerous parents urge their offspring to perform exceptionally well academically not primarily as assurance of future achievement but more so due to fulfilling the aspirations set forth by themselves. Often enough, these guardians may lack insight into what truly constitutes the best direction for their youngsters.

My query pertains to whether academic excellence ensures success. It would be wise for parents to consider realistic objectives for their children to prevent them from exerting excessive pressure through overscheduling studies merely to satisfy parental pride with various certifications.